Thoughts.

• A person should Never Ever be judged unless you know the person well enough. I strongly believe in that.

Recently, I realise everywhere I go, people judge people. And sometimes when I met the person who's being judged, they are not as bad as what people claimed . When people pass on words, every single word count. One word can change the "impact" if you get what I mean.
Like, "She said you very skinny." vs "She said you very slim".
Or "She said you're fat" vs "She said you're chubby".
The first may be offensive, but the second might not offensive to most people.
So 98% of the time, what others say might not be 100% accurate.
And you don't know what they've been through so i think no one actually have the rights to judge in the first place, besides God.

•  Sometimes it doesn't pay to be nice.

After experiencing what happened last week, I told myself that i should stand up for myself. If you feel hurt but you don't voice out. No one will ever know. I was fucking pissed last week but yet I choose not to say anything, only to get an apology only after what he found out.  I just felt.... like I was taken for granted sometimes. Even in school, or with friends, sometimes i did felt that way but I choose to keep it to myself. Come to think of it, it's kind of dumb. because we don't live to please others right...

• There's a will, there's a way

I hate to plan outings when people just go with the plan. If you're planning it all by yourself, then why you should even plan an outing when no one bothers? If you don't bother, why should I.
And I think relationship/friendship/kinship/whatever-ship, it takes both person to make it work. You wait for me to talk, I wait for you to talk, by the time old already. It works both ways.If you treasure a ?ship, you would do something about it. If the other person doesn't care then, oh wells. At least in your heart you know you've tried.


Ok, after point 3, i think i should put in even more effort.
Though I believe i do that once in awhile.
But still, I feel like I've already lost touch with some......

• what if(s)

Sometimes I wonder how would I die and what if i'm here today, gone tmrw...?
There's many thing i have not accomplised.
Actually, i have not accomplish much in life... zzzz.
Plus you never know when your parents, friends, relatives, colleagues or whoever will live until. It's unpredictable.


Ok, end of my rant.
Not really feeling emo.
Just thoughts that has been kept somewhere in my head since i don't know when.
i hope i made sense..
well, at least to myself.
Admit that i don't completely do whatever i just said.
But i'm gonna try.

K bye:)